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Discuss the differences of the dating cultures/rules in your country and compare them to other countries. cooki:

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I have one culture and nationality. Forkheads.

And in this country, when you like a girl, you grab her, and say "I like you! Let's fuck!"

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Well I don't think that in my country there is any rule book on how to properly date with someone, everything depends on people, their preferences and social life in whih they grown-up.
If you ask about personal rules like "no sex on a first date" or "man must pay for the women" then well, I know people like that but i suppose such behaviors are to be seen in most of countries and most of the time are all the same.
I haven't dated many people of other nationality than mine so I'm not sure if there are even any significant differences.
When it comes to customs then the only one in my country I can point at the moment is kissing women in the hand as you introduce yourself. It's a sign of good manners and respect for the lady. Personally I really like it as I am a man of savoir-vivre but it's slowly getting forgotten as it becomes a thing of the past. These days respect is more likely to be associated with words like "fear" or "dominance" than a good manners.

I can only point you some in my opinion universal rules and things from my experience that might be helpfull.
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Appreciation and respect is a must but don't compliment your partners attractivess - complient work and personality. Physical apperance is what people get from their parents DNA. They were born that way and that's all there is to it. But the case is very different when somene tries to work on part of his/her personality or wants to be an expert in someting (not especially job but also some hobby or social skills that help the person be in good relations with everyone). Remember how you've felt when someone complimented you on your work.

Discrecy is very very important, I would say it's a most basic unwritten rule - the less your friends and everyone else know about your intimate life the better. That makes your partner to trust you. And it also goes to the relations with your partner, don't talk about your previous loves or (if you must) talk not using any names. First, people don't like to be compared and second there's "if he/she can talk so freely about such private things, he/she could talk just the same about me". Third, after some time when you finally do (casually) start talking with your partner about such things they will feel special. Besides that brings us to the next point.

Share your emotios, well it's not a rule but sugestion. Don't just talk with "been there, done that" attitude. That kind of conversations are shallow, talk how you felt, slowly opening to the partner, that's the best way to build good emotional connection. But DO NOT JUDGE the emotions, share your feelings but avoid judging emotions, judging someones emotions is the highway to closing up this person from you.

Also excitement. When you are with your significant other then there should be always something exciting to do, otherwise you'll be another boring person... or in best case classified as good material for a parent (which also isn't the best thing, belive me).

Have your life. I would say it's a set of rules you want to follow. Respect yourself and your time. Your time is the only thing you won't get back. Have your passions and time for doing them, you should always feel comfortingly with yourslef, ALWAYS. And it's nobodys bussiness. You should always have something planned, it's an good asset. If you're not happy with yourself then how someone else could be happy with you. Who have always time for a meetings? A type of person that besides work doesn't do anything interesting in her life. Because if she had, she wouldn't voluntarily resign it.
AND if you're not in any serious relation then neither you or your partner should expect certain things from one another. Both of you have right to have your own lifes and relations with other peopl. And you should't even ask what kind of relations are they.

Last thing that comes to my mind is: Do not tell your significant other what he/she needs to do. DO NOT REPAIR your partner. Wait till he/she clearly asks you for help. (especially when it's a women, if she starts to talk about her problems it doesn't really mean that she asks for help) If you feel, like you have to repair something in your partner, then it means that you're with wrong person.

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Must. Make. A. Good. Reply. To. This. Topic.

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In this country people who are not autistic losers can have girlfriends. Lololololololol.

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Hanzo wrote:
In this country people who are not autistic losers can have girlfriends. Lololololololol.


Hanzo, your girlfriend is Europe.

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I thought that was his left tit... oh.

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In the country where I'm currently at joo can have teh girl if you ask her parents and they agree (for a fee of course) :twisted of course that's for life, no return no exchange policy LOL

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In the country where I'm currently at joo can have teh girl if you ask her parents and they agree (for a fee of course) :twisted of course that's for life, no return no exchange policy LOL


Because dating is considered more evil than dealing cocaine by the kilo?

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Because dating is considered an extra :twisted something unnecessary

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Because dating is considered an extra :twisted something unnecessary


Funny how they don't like 'dating' - that coming from a people who have no qualms about paying dirt-cheap for a marriage, fuck'em and dump 'em is... well... its hypocritical of 'em, don'tcha think?

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Kali wrote:
Because dating is considered an extra :twisted something unnecessary


Funny how they don't like 'dating' - that coming from a people who have no qualms about paying dirt-cheap for a marriage, fuck'em and dump 'em is... well... its hypocritical of 'em, don'tcha think?

yom, your blind rage is coming out.

Read sentances without bias please.

She never said they don't like dating, just said it was unneccessary

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I'm trying i'm trying~ i'm making I'll try too slowly up my posting. At least once a day for a bit. Then I'll up that too twice, then four, then 8 and so on.
Until eventually I wake up one morning and find out that I am actually an Idiot hero.
On some quest too cheat on his gf or raise affection of 5 women who conveniently live in my the same dorm as me.
In which I only have 100 days to seduce them all.

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YOU BETTER STAY ALIVE OR ELSE I WILL HUNT YOU DOWN AND RAPE YOU DEAD.

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The marriage price is quite steep actually, but you aren't really just allowed to dump them once you get them: no return no exchange remember?

but yeah, dating can be a surplus to the requirements, especially in a very traditional family

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I don't date.

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Well I don't think that in my country there is any rule book on how to properly date with someone, everything depends on people, their preferences and social life in whih they grown-up.
If you ask about personal rules like "no sex on a first date" or "man must pay for the women" then well, I know people like that but i suppose such behaviors are to be seen in most of countries and most of the time are all the same.
I haven't dated many people of other nationality than mine so I'm not sure if there are even any significant differences.
When it comes to customs then the only one in my country I can point at the moment is kissing women in the hand as you introduce yourself. It's a sign of good manners and respect for the lady. Personally I really like it as I am a man of savoir-vivre but it's slowly getting forgotten as it becomes a thing of the past. These days respect is more likely to be associated with words like "fear" or "dominance" than a good manners.

I can only point you some in my opinion universal rules and things from my experience that might be helpfull.
[spoiler]Appreciation and respect is a must but don't compliment your partners attractivess - complient work and personality. Physical apperance is what people get from their parents DNA. They were born that way and that's all there is to it. But the case is very different when somene tries to work on part of his/her personality or wants to be an expert in someting (not especially job but also some hobby or social skills that help the person be in good relations with everyone). Remember how you've felt when someone complimented you on your work.


There is a bit of a variable here, for example, if your partner excorsizes a lot, their looks become their work. and this I figure it would be appropriate to compliment them.

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Until eventually I wake up one morning and find out that I am actually an Idiot hero.
On some quest too cheat on his gf or raise affection of 5 women who conveniently live in my the same dorm as me.
In which I only have 100 days to seduce them all.

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