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Author:  cluelessfurball [ Tue Jun 02, 2009 6:15 am ]
Post subject:  Too much porn ruins relationships
Porn is healthy, dont get me wrong. Though too much of it, warps your perception of sex. I saw this with a lot of people. They have all these weird porno fantasies. A lot of these people are bound to be disapointed because the porn they watch tends to be really extreme.

Another thing it causes if you look at it too much is it objectifies the other person. So this causes people to have trouble having a relationship with their partner because their too busy with their porno generated fantasies.

It's pretty hard to have a emotional connection with someone if you're accustomed to your porno fantasies. Because well, with relationships it ultimately ends with the two having some sort of sex.

Though people who are addicted to porn they tend to miss that emotional connection. Without the emotional connection I dont think sex is that much fun.(so they end up depressed, disapointed and generally pissing off their partner)

Another thing that happens when people masturbate a lot to porn, excesively is they get de-sensitized to the sexual imagery and then it takes more and more to get them off.

Normally the healthy way is the emotional attraction and then it is the person who turns them on, not just their body. But with porno addicted people it's just not that way. These people tend to have many failed relationships, or very few relationships at all.

For example, I met a few people who were so made delusional about it, I had a friend. And he started hitting on me and asking me about my fantasies, I couldnt really answer his question. Since well, sex even though I enjoy it, I dont think about it that much. Why would I have fantasies about that? I imagine if I was a porno addicted person like him, or over sexualized I wouldve gave him a answer. I have fetishes, though no real fantasies really. I love pantyshots for example. Fortunetly most people I meet arent royally fucked in the head like that guy (He makes you guys look normal)

So I'm sure this will be very much lost on the users of forkheads, some of them being porno addicted. Porn is harmless. Just too much of it, just like too much beer, it destroys peoples minds, makes them delusional and generally fucks them up in the head. I just wanted to type this for some reason.
Author:  n0th1n [ Tue Jun 02, 2009 11:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Too much porn ruins relationships
This is literally old news.
Psychologists figured this out many many years ago, and it EVEN got mainstream attention at times.
Of course, the Catholic Church (and others) has been saying it even longer, as with alot of things people later on figure out.

Also, no, porn is never healthy. Even if you don't think its harmful, why the hell would it be healthy? Who would even care? Its like candy, no one eats it because its healthy! (except nickelodeon characters).
Author:  cluelessfurball [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Too much porn ruins relationships
Well, alcohol is healthy in moderation. Any good thing is unhealthy in excess. (Even sleeping can be unhealthy if you do it too much!)
Author:  n0th1n [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Too much porn ruins relationships
pinkturbokitty wrote:
Well, alcohol is healthy in moderation. Any good thing is unhealthy in excess. (Even sleeping can be unhealthy if you do it too much!)


Actually, alcohol itself is simply a poison. You are thinking of certain other things in ALCOHOLIC DRINKS that are healthy (antioxidants in certain kinds of wine, for instance). These are also usually found more abundantly in other things anyway.

Well, technically alcohol, in HIGH proofs can help prevent diseases, but that's simply because it kills the diseases in the stuff you are drinking anyway or in your stomach from other stuff you recently had.
Author:  Shocksock [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 6:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Too much porn ruins relationships
Actually people with no/litte emotional attraction can have a lot of sex and be happy. Just no much relationships and ALOTof 1 night stands. Depends on the person. I for one have to actually like someone not just think "she's hot must fuck her".
Author:  rosie [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 7:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Too much porn ruins relationships
I think what pinkturbokitty was trying to get at was that they would not be happy in any long-term relationships, and ultimately they will never be satisfied because they will not be able to easily find someone who shares the same fantasies as them (at least, that's what I got out of it).

Even though some people will prefer one-night stands to long-term relationships because they don't want to deal with emotional attachment or whatever other reason they have, it's happiness that will only last for a short period of time. Basically, they're not going to be happy in the long run because they won't find someone to share a deeper relationship with. Granted, not everyone wants a deeper relationship, but those that do and have already sexually deviated from the norm to an extreme will have a hard time doing so.
Author:  30kbpm [ Mon Jun 08, 2009 2:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Too much porn ruins relationships
I think this has happened to me before. I once had my girlfriend over at the house and I was making out with her, turning me on of course. Then we started getting naked. I wasn't very much like the pussy you see in hentai or lolicon, and when I tried to put it in I usually got soft again. In the end we just watched a movie and she went home.
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